Mood:
not sureI have a scenario for you guys. Let me first explain that the person I am talking about was just engaged but recently broke it off cause she knew that person was not the person she wanted to be with for the rest of her life. Hey, sometimes it happens. Anyway so the other day I overheard this person talking to a friend on the phone asking if a certain guy was single. I just kept going about my business and finished what I was doing and then walked away. Later in the afternoon I saw that same person again and I asked her how things were going with her. She said everything was going good. I then asked her how she liked single life (with a smile and a little giggle) and then as she was about to answer I told her how I overheard her asking her friend if a certain guy was single. She then stopped what she was about to say and snapped at me saying "you sure are nosy" in a mean kind of tone. I laughed and said "well it was kind of hard for me not to hear cause I was standing right there." She didn't say anything but kind of gave me this look so I just walked away.
Now, if this was you, would you think I was being Nosy, or just starting a conversation. See, the next day I felt bad cause my whole intention was not to be nosy but to just start up a conversation. I apologized and told her it was not my intention of being nosy and that sometimes I guess I am even though I don't mean to be. She thanked me for apologizing which made me believe she truly thought I was being a nosy person. So I would like to know what you think, would you think I was being nosy? Cause I think that sometimes people feel that I am that way even though I am not trying to be or I might not even know that I am actually being nosy. Anyway, your thoughts would be appreciated, thanks!
Posted by deannaj6
at 3:44 PM PST
